OK Custom group did it.
Thank you.

I looked at the Spam notice: nothing seems to fit.
Sent message to Inmotion support.

When set to HTML I did get the following message:
A message that you sent was rejected by the local scanning code that checks incoming messages on this system. The following error was given:

This message was classified as SPAM and may not be delivered. For more information, please see http://www.inmotionhosting.com/support/edu/everything-email/550-spam-message

—— This is a copy of your message, including all the headers. ——

Received: from graces11 by ecbiz193.inmotionhosting.com with local (Exim 4.86_1)
(envelope-from <[email protected]>)
id 1acvMg-003wLv-2I; Mon, 07 Mar 2016 08:38:26 -0500
To: [email protected]
Subject: [Grace’s Grantham Cafe] – Ronald Carr: your order March 7, 2016 8:38 am
X-PHP-Script: gracesnh.com/wp-admin/admin-ajax.php for 75.67.80.53
Date: Mon, 7 Mar 2016 13:38:26 +0000
From: Grace’s Grantham Cafe <[email protected]>
Cc: rcarr38 <[email protected]>
Reply-To: rcarr38 <[email protected]>
Message-ID: <[email protected]>
X-Mailer: PHPMailer 5.2.14 (https://github.com/PHPMailer/PHPMailer)
MIME-Version: 1.0
Content-Type: multipart/alternative;
boundary=”b1_407e9811c7e6b4b651ba6e7b07357d77″
Content-Transfer-Encoding: 8bit

This is a multi-part message in MIME format.

–b1_407e9811c7e6b4b651ba6e7b07357d77
Content-Type: text/plain; charset=us-ascii
This was followed by the Order form, so it did get sent.
There is more to the message, including HTML…do you want the whole thinmg? I have it as .pdf

Yes: disabled wordfence and Ingredients add-on also.

Yeah, I was a little embarrassed when I went back that it worked!
I added a cart to every page that helped.
However, does not send email: wp-mail cannot instantiate